Cultivating Creativity: Discover your Creative Potential

Sunday, June 02, 2024

Cultivating Creativity: Discover Your Creative Potential

So, you want to be more creative, huh?

I get it…creative people seem to be more productive, happier, and just have that spark that people are attracted to. It seems this way because it’s true. But it’s not so much about creative output, you know, the artwork, poetry, music, etc., but rather about their thought process, and what’s going on internally that makes someone creative.

And the best news…creativity is a natural human quality made up of skills that can be LEARNED!

Creativity is innate to human existence therefore you are already creative. Afterall creativity is nothing more than problem solving, making connections, or adding value to your life and/or others.

If this is true then what stops so many of us from feeling creative?

Our own negative experiences and limiting beliefs cloud our ability to tap into that creative energy. For example, the time we felt embarrassed in front of our peers for saying or doing something that others made fun of. Or when we expressed how we felt to someone we loved, and it was met with rejection or disapproval. These experiences pile up and create negative beliefs about our ability to create and the value of our expression.

The way to rediscover your creative self is to identify and challenge those limiting beliefs that are holding you back, then replace these beliefs with something more productive and helpful.

Identify Limiting Beliefs and Creative Reframes:

Here are a few examples of limiting beliefs that may come up when you begin to get creative, and how to reframe them.

Fear vs. Courage

Fear is likely to come up when we think of our creative potential because it's something new that creates feelings of uncertainty or anxiety. The first step is to identify the fear and the thought behind it. Once you have done this you can make an intentional decision to challenge the limiting belief with something more positive, productive, and helpful. Doing this over and over again will improve your creative potential and eventually become your way of being.

Fear of Failure

Limiting Beliefs: I don't know what I'm doing. I'll probably make mistakes, or it will turn out bad.

Courageous Reframes:  I am capable of learning new skills through effort and practice. I may not like it at first but with practice I can get better. Many artists and creatives make things that they don’t like or turn out to be different than they expected. That doesn’t stop them from creating and I won’t let that stop me either. The value is in the process of creativity and not just in the finished product.

Fear of Vulnerability:

Limiting Beliefs: People probably won't like it and I'll just be embarrassed. Maybe I'll get negative or hurtful comments. What if my creation is not accepted or receives disapproval?

Courageous Reframes: Honest self-expression is important regardless of the feedback I receive. Not EVERYONE will love what I create, but SOMEONE likely will. If I receive negative feedback from others then this creation is simply not for them, and that’s okay. I can focus more on the process of creation than the finished product.

​Fear of Not Being Good Enough:

Limiting Beliefs: I can’t draw, paint, write, sing, etc. I’m no good, I’m not talented.

​​Courageous Reframes: I can draw just by picking up a pencil and making marks. I can play an instrument just by sitting in front of a piano and pressing the keys. I am capable of learning the skills needed to improve and create something and even to excel. Mastery comes from persistent failure and correction. I become good at something through effort and practice.

Pride vs. Willingness:

Pride may arise when our creative effort doesn’t meet our own expectations or challenges our self-perception. During these initial stages, we start as beginners, which can cause us to feel silly or childish, so we often avoid these emotions by giving up or make excuses to justify not doing it at all.

Limiting Beliefs: I feel stupid. This looks like a child drew it. I don't like not knowing how to do this, so it’s easier not to even try. I’m too good for this.

Willingness Reframes: It's okay to feel uncomfortable...this is something new. It doesn’t have to be perfect to get started and I don't have to be great at it. It is necessary to be willing to adjust expectations of my own performance. Since my creative skills are unpracticed, I must accept my current circumstances and consider what I am willing to do to improve and accomplish what I want.

Apathy vs. Reason:

Apathy may be the most tenacious of all the emotions we discuss here, because it is often the result of multiple life circumstances weighing on the individual and breeds thoughts of inadequacy or helplessness. If this is your experience, the first step is to take one. That’s right, take one step in the direction you want to go by noticing the thoughts that arise keeping you from healing. Notice the thoughts, and ask them to step aside. 

Limiting Beliefs: Who cares? What’s the point? It's too hard. It's not worth it. No one will see it anyway.

Reasonable Reframes: The importance and value of creative expression is not the outcome but the act of creation. I can do one thing for myself today by expressing how I feel in a simple way. 

Additional tips: 

  • Redefine the purpose: the purpose is beyond the creative output but rather resides with developing the skills of a Creative. With time and effort, this will allow you to resolve life’s problems and reach full potential. Your creative practice is the point.
  • Focus on possibility rather than expectation: Think of what you might learn through the process of creating rather than expecting the final product to be great or a certain way.
  • Let go of judgment and invite mistakes: There is no such thing as failure, only evidence that you are learning and making progress. Mistakes are an inevitable part of the process

Becoming a Creative will happen only after you attend to your limiting beliefs. If you skip this step your creative output will likely be a struggle, an uphill battle, or be unfruitful.

​When you practice addressing limiting beliefs and choosing positive reframes, your creative self will begin to emerge, and your creative endeavors will become enjoyable and at times seem effortless. Here are some actionable on how to initiate and cultivate your creative practice.

For more support and guidance reach out to a licensed therapist. Link to resource page:

Actionable Steps:

1. Set the intention to become more creative:

What you focus your attention on will grow. With an intention to be more creative, opportunities will present themselves. By making an intention to be more creative you are priming your mind and body to act accordingly. You will begin to notice creative acts or ways in which you can be creative in daily life and ideas and inspiration will flow.

2. Train your artistic eye:

Observe something in as great detail as possible. Notice the texture, curves, light, shadow. Imagine you could recreate this in art. For other types of art notice the details of this creation - for a musician...the notes being played; a dancer...the body part being manipulated in a particular way; a writer, imagine describing your environment or event in detail with impeccable wording.

3. Visualize:

Look around and notice things that have been created…buildings, signs, furniture. Imagine what it took to create that thing? What tools were necessary? How much time did it take? Imagine the act of creating that thing. Practice imagining yourself in the creative process in your creative mode of choice. The brain does not know the difference between imagining and doing the act in reality. Studies have supported this claim by testing those who imagine and those who don’t and see significant improvements for the group who visualize, meaning that you can learn simply through this mental exercise.

4. Create ephemeral art:

Practice the creative process by making art that is temporary. This will help you to focus on the process and reduce resistance and fear that often accompanies creativity. This will also lessen the burden of perfection and reduce focus on the finished product. Creativity is infinite; therefore, we don’t run out of ideas by getting them out, in fact this practice will increase the frequency of ideas. The more you have the more there are.

Examples:

Drawing with Water

Nature Art

Nature Art by Chelsey Bahe

Artful Parenting

Now, go out and try your hand at some of the examples listed above. Even if you are not a professional artist, there are many benefits to artmaking as a creative practice (link to art/mental health blog).

Have a creative week!

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Note from the author: 

As I was writing this blog post I became aware of the limiting beliefs I have about writing. I hadn’t before considered writing as a creative act…I guess because most of the writing I have done has been research based which doesn’t really scream “creativity”.

As I wrote, I became frustrated with the process because I felt bored and uncomfortable, agonizing over every paragraph and entertaining limiting beliefs.

Limiting Beliefs:

Fear: This has to be perfect because I want people to believe I know what I am talking about. I had feelings of uncertainty and raging imposter syndrome.

Pride: This is hard and it's taking too long! I expected it to be easy; I was fighting with the process and discrediting my own abilities and experience.

Evie Soape, atr-bc, lmhc

Positive Reframes: It takes practice and time to develop writing skills. With more practice I will get better at writing, and it will flow a little easier. I had fear around my ability to write well, although I have plenty of evidence to the contrary. I have written research articles and plenty of papers that will never be read again from my years of education. And for what?... To practice the creative process and learn about my ability to create and present my ideas. If I hadn't done those things I would likely not be writing this blog post today. If I hadn’t written those papers and cultivated those ideas, I may not be willing to put my ideas on this page. All of that practice gave me the skills and confidence necessary to speak to you today.

Lean into the process and your creative gifts will present themselves. The time and effort it takes is worth your time and attention.

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